MANY people seem to think that Marriage is a Material Transaction, where a Boy or Girl strikes the Eye, is liked, and is brought home.
Just as We would discard a shoe that we did not like, so too are Partners Dumped!
To speak of Marriages being Made in Heaven sounds like Shoes made by the famous company, Bata, in India.
NO. Marriages have to be Made to Work. Each Person has to Give and Take. When One partner feels that the Other has peculiarities, Everybody has to remember that He/She has Peculiarities too.
All that being So, found this post and liked the following Words in it Very Much. (Emphasis mine).
Love and attraction are two different things.
Love starts when the attraction begins to fade, when the people realise that the other person is not perfect but still they want to spend their life with them. Love is when you keep on falling for the same person each day and you tend to do anything to put a smile on their face. 🙂
Hearty Kudos to Kriti over this.
We (youth) often have discussions regarding which format of marriage is better love or arranged. Some argue in the favor of love marriage and some in favor of arranged marriage. I do not understand who put a VS between these two. According to me love and arranged marriages are not the Earth and the sky. These are just two different sides of the same coin. I’m not biased towards any particular format I’ve seen both of them turning out to be successful.
Living in a country like India, marriage is not just the union of two souls but also the union of two families. Our parents always want to see us happy. So they according to their own experiences they try to choose the best partners for us. But the problem that lies here is even our parents do not know us completely (I would like to apologize if I’m…
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