First of all, children should learn to ‘take’ a no. I accept that there are nut-case parents who should be in jail. Before all this, WHY are children kept in separate rooms? So their parents can have sex ubditurbed?
Narcissistic parents are notorious for not allowing their children to have any boundaries. They have no problem going through their children’s personal belongings or even breaking or getting rid of things their child uses or loves. Children are allowed no privacy, & some narcissistic parents go as far as removing their bedroom doors. Possibly the worst thing narcissistic parents do is refusing to allow their children to say “no”.
Narcissistic parents are too self centered to realize or even care that by not allowing their children to say no, they are teaching their children some pretty terrible lessons. When children learn that saying no is bad & not allowed, this teaches them that others can treat them however they wish. This opens the door for other wicked people to abuse these children. It also sets these children up for a life of misery because they don’t believe they have the…
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How much freedom should parents have in bringing up their own children? Are we moving towards a future where every child is taken away at birth and brought up by the government?
Chip? Maybe there is. Maybe there isn’t. I should ask…why does anyone need to suggest that parents should teach their children values? If we are looking for uniform values then legislation is the way to go. Isn’t it?
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How much freedom should parents have in bringing up their own children? Are we moving towards a future where every child is taken away at birth and brought up by the government?
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I seem to see a chip on your shoulder, Ankur. what is the connection between parents teaching children values and ‘gorement’ bringing up children?
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Chip? Maybe there is. Maybe there isn’t. I should ask…why does anyone need to suggest that parents should teach their children values? If we are looking for uniform values then legislation is the way to go. Isn’t it?
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wonder if ppl even know the meaning of values. also wonder if ppl hv children n grand children.
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