Category Archives: Children

A Superb Quote, post and thoughts

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“Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder”

From: https://jenniefitzkee.com/2022/05/13/colors-of-the-day-flowering-tree-moonrise-sunset/

Actually Lost the above link; the page had suddenly closed. Found her page after some effort, and found the link after a LOT of scrolling. Had a hard time passing them by. YOU WOULD FIND HER SITE INTERESTING. 🙂

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Values

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This is a picture worth paying attention to.

When I was getting trained for my Priesthood some 45-50 yrs ago, We had classes on Values for quite a few periods. That, plus my latter studies on the subject and my Reflections, cannot be condensed into a post (of my type).

In the fewest words, Values are what Humankind Desires.

In my longish career, I had a student whose highest value was to cook and feed. …I do not think she was/is alone in that.

Thus there is a Hierarchy of Values (what are most important for an individual).

For a Long time, discipline was my most important value. People might find Courage, Honesty, Beauty, Cleanliness, whatnot as their first values.

Now I think Love, Peace and Happiness are the Most Important ones.

Pity the people (which is what Most people are today) who get their happiness from biryani, cars, …in short, Wine, Women and Song, as it is said.

Problem: the day they don’t get that, their happiness goes phut. So they have to make money, make money, make money, Every day, Every Hour; Even if they have to Sell their Honour, Honesty and Integrity. (Am sure none of my readers fall in this category)!

(cji=chief judge of India, called chief justice. Evidently there are other types of Justice)

(MP is member of Parliament! Indians tolerate this – viz: gogoi becoming mp!)

Children are NOT born with the right hierarchy of values.

That is why the world has had teachers and gurus.

It surprises me, horribly, that people think Only about themselves.

The state, in the form of the ruling party, is NOT supposed to Interfere in teaching values.

In Ancient India, the king KNELT at the Rishi’s feet, STOOD UP for him, and GAVE HIM A HIGHER SEAT.

So, in the Original Indian way of things, IT WAS NEVER SUPPOSED THAT THE STATE WOULD DARE TO TEACH ABOUT RIGHT AND WRONG.

Unless supervised by Parents (parents worthy of that name), children have frequently turned out like this, and worse.

joodges and law-yers only know the law, (often made for their own advantage!). It is the Family (even, and particularly, Old Ladies, even if Uneducated) that knows about Justice, and Values. As such children should listen to their parents. Of course too many so-called parents take advantage of their children.

But We are not talking about them, are We? 🙂

There is very little sense of THE OTHER in India now.

स्वांतसुखाय, परान्तसुखाय, कर्म, कर्मफल, धर्म-अधर्म

(Roughly, Selfish, Selfless, Actions and their End, Right vs Wrong)

were Common words of the time of my Youth. Now they are fed on hitler’s ‘nationalism’ and religious rituals.

This year (2022), modi had asked that Every house display the National flag. The man in the toon above asks modi when he is going to give them a House.

Above: For a Long time, running down the Bull dozer became a political tool of the bjp.

And the Well-fed middle class snores away.

Not only अहंब्रह्मास्मि, (AhamBrahmaasmi, India’s most famous mantra), but

तत्त्वमसि, नेहनानास्तिकिंचन

(Tattvamasi, You too are ‘That,’ and Nehanaanaastikinchan, there is No multiplicity here)

are also Mahavakyas.

लोकसमस्तसुखिनोभवन्तु

(LokaSamasthaSukhinoBhavantu: meaning “Let the entire world be happy.” Somebody had told me this is the One verse Common in All the Vedas. Now Internet does Not say this! …And)

वसुधैवकुटुम्बकम

(VasudhAivKutumbakam: the Entire Earth is my Family; much touted by modi during his trips abroad)

are Lost. Where?

If Love, Peace and Happiness are the Most Important values, what peace, what happiness can be found without Freedom, and Democracy, and Justice?

She, along with her Mother n 3 sisters were Actually (Gang) Raped. Banu’s 3 yo Daughter’s head was Smashed. A total of 14 Killing took place in that family. Now those men are Released!
Garlanded and Feted.

It took the Bapu (Gandhiji) nearly half a century to get India her freedom.

https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/chennai/gandhi-jayanti-five-spots-in-chennai-linked-to-mahatma-gandhi-that-you-should-know-about-6038540/

Saving and Keeping Decency, Respect, Freedom, Democracy and Justice, etc, are Not going to enter a Child’s head. Parents have Inculcate them.

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When Children Aren’t Allowed To Say No

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First of all, children should learn to ‘take’ a no. I accept that there are nut-case parents who should be in jail. Before all this, WHY are children kept in separate rooms? So their parents can have sex ubditurbed?

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Cynthia Bailey-Rug, Christian Author

Narcissistic parents are notorious for not allowing their children to have any boundaries.  They have no problem going through their children’s personal belongings or even breaking or getting rid of things their child uses or loves.  Children are allowed no privacy, & some narcissistic parents go as far as removing their bedroom doors.  Possibly the worst thing narcissistic parents do is refusing to allow their children to say “no”.

Narcissistic parents are too self centered to realize or even care that by not allowing their children to say no, they are teaching their children some pretty terrible lessons. When children learn that saying no is bad & not allowed, this teaches them that others can treat them however they wish. This opens the door for other wicked people to abuse these children. It also sets these children up for a life of misery because they don’t believe they have the…

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Afghan Earthquake

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Saddened to hear, over the BBC, that No help is arriving.

This, despite a situation like this.

That reduces my belly to a jelly. But no matter.

WHY isn’t even the (Chritian) West involved? …Have noticed, over time, that helping ‘Others’ does not seem to be a priority for Hinduism. …But why not even Arab, and Muslim countries like Indonesia, et al?

As I see it, NOBODY seems to be liking the Taliban‘s policies.

Yet the taliban is belligerent.

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On Abortions

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On the ‘Abortion’ issue, (once again).

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This is No simple matter, of course. Rape and Unwed mothers, particularly among the Poor, are a Consideration. But for the ‘Free Sex’ world, ( Who else would say: my body, etc? ), as below.

learn to control your sex urge. SLAP that handsome guy, if you have to, bec, when you go and do it, a ‘third’ party, with Equal rights, gets involved.

What about the Rights of the Child?

Search for pictures of Children thrown out into the garbage bin after abortions, before supporting the children of Ukraine.

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Children and Old People

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I belong to the second group, and it is true! (In English at the bottom, pl).

words and music and stories

➡️ Please, scroll down for the English version

Oggi su Facebook ho letto questo aforisma:

Mi ha ricordato qualcosa detto anche da Updike, di cui oggi ricorre l’anniversario della nascita

John Updike fu un romanziere, saggista e scrittore di racconti americano nato il 18 marzo 1932 e morto nel 2009.
Pubblicò oltre 20 romanzi, più di una dozzina di raccolte di racconti, e anche poesie, critica letteraria e libri per bambini.
Ricevette numerosi riconoscimenti, tra cui due Premi Pulitzer per la narrativa: è uno dei soli quattro autori ad aver vinto il Premio Pulitzer più di una volta.

Scrisse:

“Mi piacciono i vecchi. Possono essere dei meravigliosi bastardi perché non hanno niente da perdere. Le uniche persone che possono essere se stesse sono i bambini e i vecchi bastardi”.

꧁✫°*”•.° °.•”*°✫꧂ ꧁✫°*”•.° °.•”*°✫꧂ ꧁✫°*”•.° °.•”*°✫꧂

Today on Facebook I read the following aphorism:

“I believe there are two stages…

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My Response to Shiva’s There shall be NO WAR.

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My Dear Shiva, You present good hopes. …But I do not think a WW at this stage would be the end of the Earth. …Dog putin, if he starts it, would ally with china, n korea, and possibly venezuela. On the other side would be the West which is Bigger than NATO (non NATO members would be joining in).

I do not think most of Africa or S America would be involved (except for crackpots).

china would use the opportunity to nuke India, as would India into Pakistan.

For all that, LARGE tracts would be UN-involved, as I see it. Also, even the combined lot of nuc warheads would not be able to Disintegrate the earth.

NO doubt it would be a Horror.

Warning! VERY Horrific pictures.

But FOND HOPES will not prevent it.

The Russian Women should come to know what putin is doing. The head of the russian orthodox church can Easily control putin.

Let us Pray Good sense prevails. Om Shanti.

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My Hottest

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Herein, I Bind/Tie/Remit putin and #kirill’s sins on their heads. In other words, I Refuse them Forgiveness.

In putin’s case it is his lies (NOT going to invade Ukraine, Not bombarding Civilians/Civilian areas, etc,), his crime of destroying another country, killing women and Children.

You can’t bury Your dead.

putin going to church, making the sign of the cross, whatever, count for Nothing besides these things.

MY caption will say: putin makes The Sign of The Cross, Multiple times.

In kirill’s case it is his Naivette., Not being concerned about putin’s crimes stated above. Also, …

Putin found one substantial plank from Russia’s past that he could build with: Orthodoxy. His government made a deal with the church. The state would help rebuild the church that had made Russia special for more than a thousand years, and the church would support the government, conservative values, and even Putin’s questionable foreign interventions in Ukraine, Syria, and elsewhere. (From: https://restoftheiceberg.org/posts/2018/4/2/why-does-the-russian-orthodox-church-support-vladimir-putin)

All those deals do not save kirill’s skin. …All heads of Christian churches are supposed to be The Vicar of Christ. That, evidently, takes some doing.

(In the event of either or both of them Recanting, with the UTMOST sincerety, my above gets Nullified).

Some background.

Christ Jesus gave His Aposles, (NOT to the Public in general, see John 20.19), the Authority to forgive sins, Or to Refuse that.

That is Hugely contested, but here is what The Bible says He said:

We can see that ALL versions (translations) say the Same thing. Pl look at the left column. My being Ordained gives me that Authority.

If You ask What Practical purpose does my statement serve… Useful Only if it reaches their Ears. But Funnier things have happened,

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International Women’s Day

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My Respects, Love and Regards to All the Ladies in the World. Especially to Our Lady bloggers, and the Brave Ladies of Ukraine and Russia.

Let me Salute the Brave Ladies of India who WALKED, often Carrying their Children, HUNDREDS of Kilometres in 40+ centigrade heat, due to our prime minister modi’s unplanned handling of the Corona lockdown.

And just One on the Children.

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Ruth's Reflections

It’s International Women’s Day, and there’s little sign of public acknowledgement, presumably because there’s so much else on the public mind.

My thoughts are with the women of Ukraine. It is barely believable that just a few weeks ago they were living comfortably in situations similar to our own. Today they fear for their lives and those of their loved ones. Some are preparing to fight. I heard a woman interviewed who said it takes strength in the hand and fingers to fire a weapon. When asked how she would feel about killing someone she said she wasn’t thinking about that, just concentrating on the moment.

Many have left home, husbands, and other family to take their children on long journeys to uncertain safety, with tags showing their children’s blood group sewn into their clothes.

Ukrainian child refugees

There have been pictures of people carrying a loved pet, and I’ve…

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